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Old Place of Monreith, pt.2

The question is:

- “How relaxing can it get?”

And the answer is?

Well, let’s see… The journey to The Dowies was easy for me. I was coming from Kraków where the temperature was -15 degrees Celsius on the morning of my departure, preceded by about 2 weeks of temperatures ranging around -20 mark. I remember always being told to watch out for the Scottish weather, which can be inclement at times, to say the least. You can therefore imagine my surprise when I found the weather in Edinburgh rather mild upon landing.

I am known for notoriously rushing from place to place, allowing my diary to get dangerously overcrowded with engagements and ridiculously tight itineraries. On this occasion however I have refrained from indulging this insane habit of mine. And so I had the time to pop into delicious David Bann restaurant, where I had a drawn out 3 course meal, read the newspaper and chatted with the waiter.

The next stop was Glasgow where I was meeting one of the Monreith guests and had a social engagement to attend. The slow pace of the afternoon has worked its magic. I started relaxing even before I got to the Old Place!

There were little hiccups on the way – I think it is in logistics’ nature to sometimes go “funny” on me, so I now know that it may happen. And when it does I stand firmly on the “no drama” front. It works a treat.

Back to my question… Relaxation is not something that I have a lot of in my life. By relaxation I mean what people sometimes refer to as “quality time”. Work, relationship, three kids, a busy household, chores – it all takes a lot of time. Most of it, really. Sometimes I manage to sit down and knit for a while or take a bath instead of a shower, but that is it! And there is a good bedtime routine which works very well for me…

Being away from home creates a massive lack of “familiar circumstances”. It’s an opening to create. There is space and time that are like a living canvas waiting for life to happen. One of the ideas in Waldorf education is that the reason, other than the obvious one we all know about, that children need enough sleep is that they process everything that happens during the day in their sleep. It is essential for their growth and development. I suspect that it applies to adults as much as to children. Being away, in the middle of nowhere, without any distractions of daily life, is like that act of sleeping for me. Except that I am wide awake and aware.

I can go and dwell within for a while and the new frontiers of being with myself stay with me even when this blissful period of temporary refuge comes to an end. Same goes for newly discovered ways of being with others. The shifts seem tiny but, in fact, they are huge.

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I suppose where I am going with this is that getting to a point of deep relaxation takes a while and the conditions have to be right. Having an intention helps too. I wondered how me being so relaxed would impact the group also, as everyone’s state of being was felt within the group. The surprising thing for me was how often and how many women have remarked on how very relaxed I was! Hearing it from the lips of women who know me well and know how hectic I can be was particularly bemusing. All in all, I think we were a pretty chilled group, so my attitude fitted right in.

Somehow, without a great deal of thought, I have worked my way through some deep issues that were nagging at me for a while and have made a couple of important decisions. The task of accomplishing that was light as a feather!

This morning I have come across this quote:

“To live is the rarest thing in the world. Most people exist, that is all.” ― Oscar Wilde

I have no doubt that The Old Place of Monreith has witnessed life, not existence.

PS: The answer to my question is: ”Deeply.”

made by me

My brain, fuelled by three delicious coffees, has had a brilliant idea (if I say so myself!)…

A pile of sweet labels I have unerthed in one of the carefully piled storage boxes will be given away to all Stitchville customers.

Simply make a purchase, no matter how large or small, and a little set of five of these will be packed in with your order.

Why not boast your ingenious creativity?!

made by me

Old Place of Monreith, pt.1

The Dowies

This is the place. Not so much of a castle this time. More of a fortified house nestled amongst the gently undulating green hills of Galloway – even in the midst of winter.

I was there only a month ago! Not even that. The experience, for me personally, was that of deep relaxation and peace. This was in a striking contrast to the bustle and hassle of the pre-trip January period filled with a ton of admin. I came back from Rosslyn, was immediately plunged into pre-Christmas preparations, enjoyed a lovely Christmas break, and promptly emerged into the New Year, only to realize that I have been distracted from work for what seemed like weeks on end. There was very little time to pull the last trip together in every sense but as, thankfully, I am not counted among the reasonable or the faint hearted, I just carried on… The perfect group of women came together and off we went to the magical land of The Dowies. I cannot put my finger on what exactly made it so very special for me, especially that all the previous trips were fabulous too – each in its own unique way, but somehow this was just what doctor ordered. I can only guess that it was the alchemy of all the ingredients that made it what it was.

Firstly, and very counterintuitively indeed, there was the fact that I have just emerged from a very intense period of several months when life has placed many demands on me, which I have bravely juggled to the best of my abilities. Why counterintuitively, you may ask? Well, because it is not necessarily the most obvious action – to take yet another commitment on on the tail end of a long string of commitments when all one part of me wanted to do was to just stop. Well, as it turned out, it was well worth going the proverbial extra mile, following the lead of the part of me that is a non conformist and a dreamer.

The Old Place is well out of everyone’s way. Even locals don’t know about it – it is such a well kept secret! I liked the energy of the place the very moment I walked into its spacious and welcoming kitchen. The house was on a much smaller scale than Rosslyn Castle, but that was precisely what made it so warm and cosy. I LOVED sitting and knitting in a salon upstairs, feeling almost cradled by the strong thick walls of the house, with windows overlooking misty landscape. We would throw the windows open to let the soft breeze in on a sunny mild day. All this when the Continental Europe was in a strong grip of frosty weather and London was brought to a halt by a gentle snowfall.

The remoteness was a blessing. It created a feeling of timelessness. I only spent 10 days there but, in some ways, it felt like a whole era has passed.

TBC’d.

Rosslyn Castle

Rosslyn Castle on my arrival on Friday the 25th of Novemebr 2011

I am running a risk of letting the knitting holidays get on top of me! I have come back from Roslin just over one month ago and, I suppose Christmas is to blame, I have not had the time nor head space to sit down and to sum up (if such a thing is indeed possible) the trip. Firstly, as is often the case with events planned long time in advance, the trip has crept up on me. And it was fine too – everything was handled well in advance. The group of visiting Ladies has shaped up marvellously and I was very much looking forward to spending some time with them all.

I travelled to Edinburgh a little early and have stayed in a lovely little hotel situated on the Royal Mile, which was a treat. The weather, as you may well expect at this time of year, was not brilliant. And I forgot only one thing – an umbrella, which was easily remedied! I met up with a friend I have made at Saddell Castle, who was a perfect stranger when she’s turned up for the very first  Stitchville knitting holiday, but is now a very good friend (she was the “wild card” of the previous holiday). It was just great to catch up and to be shown about by a proper Edinburghian. We went off, surprise surprise, to her local knitting group’s meeting in a little quaint café where we spent a lovely albeit short while, as we had to dash off to a performance that night.

Upon arrival in Roslin, at which point I was quite in need of a little rest, I ordered a cab to take me (and my heavy bags) to the castle. Imagine my surprise when the cab driver turfed me out at the bottom of the hill, assertively proclaiming that he is not going up that mud track, as it is simply too dangerous! There was no reasoning with him. So I got out and bravely took on the barely there hill. We have worked on the cab drivers with tremendous success – at the end of the holiday the very same cab driver braved the hill to take one of us to the airport!

I like the first day of holidays. It’s a day of taking the place in, of welcomes and unpacking. We chilled quite a lot on the first weekend of the holiday. There was a core group of 5 people who were there for the whole 10 days, whilst the “orbital” two positions were held by three sets of two visiting Ladies. One of us, particularly interested in facts (and not particularly interested in knitting, which BTW is allowed as we are a very open bunch) was telling us interesting stories about the castle, which she has read about in the many interesting books from the castle’s library.

It was quite a surprise when the Rumbustious Group arrived on Monday. Monday was a birthday also. The fire was roaring big in an impressive fireplace in the drawing-room and in the dining room also. All doors downstairs were flung open. On that day we have achieved the unthinkable – the big and spacious castle actually felt cosy! I have invaded the Chef’s kitchen to make a birthday cake…

Back to the Rumbustious Ladies… We had so much fun! We took to regularly going to bed past midnight – that’s how engaging and exciting the conversations were. We just could not drop them. We, however, would end up dropping the stitches in the heat of conversation and because it was very late. With only one single bedroom, most of us shared. May I say that, actually and counterintuitively for many grown up women – particularly these going on a holiday with other women, some of whom are perfect strangers to start with at least, this has proven to be a real highlight for me. I have shared a room with a dear friend of mine and it was such a treat! Needless to say, the conversations went on even after the lights went out. I was reminded of my childhood, when sleepovers used to be such a fun thing to do (it made me think of a friend I am no longer in touch with, who I used to share similar moments with when I was a child – and yes, I did call her when I came back home!). These days I’m the one organising sleepovers (really, they should be called “wakeovers”) for my own children! So it made a change and was quite a record too – 10 nights!

The soft discipline of the first knitting holiday, when we would get out onto the beach to do some stretches in the morning, simply wasn’t there. I slept in every morning without fail. Actually, this made me quite worried about slotting back into my early bird routine on my return home, which has proven to be an unjustified concern. The countryside around the castle was pretty enough, but it simply could not match – at least for me – the amazing outdoors of the Kintyre Peninsula and the beautiful bay the Saddell Castle overlooks. I knitted as much as I could – whenever I was not organising stuff or teaching. I’ve made this hat and this snood at Rosslyn, as well as some simple leg warmers for my daughter, and this scarf:

Be Sweet Scarf

She has chosen the yarn herself when she was 6 years old. It is so mad that I really couldn’t think of what to do with it, so it was stashed with piles of other yarn, biding its time… It ended up as a long stripy scarf.

The group output was tremendous. There were piles of projects cast-off, cast-on and at any imaginable stage in between.

The second weekend was yet different – very mellow and incredibly relaxed, with a touch of a “phew!” to it. It seemed we have reached some sort of relaxation plateau. It was just perfect. On that weekend I have finally braved the dungeons! It took us a while to find an entrance to it, which has turned out to be in plain view… The splendid top floors of the castle rest upon something quite different. A cold and wet three floors of glassless windows and almost cave-like rooms. We were told by the caretaker that the floor directly below the ground floor used to be the kitchens and servants’ quarters. There appeared to be another kitchen on the floor below that, and more rooms, which could have been the servants’ rooms. The lowest floor used to be a prison and it was the most dreary and wettest of all! The energy down there felt quite heavy, which has prompted me to return to the cosy drawing-room upstairs where I could immerse myself again in the comforting knitting and an interesting conversation, of which there is never a lack on these holidays. Some of us ventured into the dungeons, some of us did not. I wanted to understand the place, so I went.

Rosslyn Castle, XXI century

I can tell you that no amount of books, essays and lectures can make it more poignant how different and divided the society was back in the days of this castle’s glory. And it looked pretty amazing in its heyday:

Rosslyn Castle, XVII century

As we have found out a few days after our arrival, the place is atop ghost hunters’ list (I had no idea there was one). Apparently, on the day of our arrival a group of ghost hunters has just left! Little did we know about it. Being sensitive souls though, with quite accurate energy meters built-in, we thought that the energy was a little “off” at the castle when we got there. Luckily, we had a “spirit pro” with us, who has very admiringly sorted the place out for us. It was an experience, to be sure. Apparently, the ghosts of the White Lady and the Grey Lady dwell in the castle, accompanied by a ghost of a greyhound, whose favourite spot is on the top of the stone staircase. Legends abound! Rosslyn Chapel was a magnificent cherry on the cake with its many stories and legends also:

Rosslyn Chapel

The reason I keep on choosing these amazing historic locations rather than characterless modern hotels (perhaps warmer and more comfortable, but painfully sterile and boring) is precisely because they are so educational by their very nature. I can and most probably will forget a holiday in one of these aforementioned contemporary hotels, but I most certainly will not forget this one!

On the way back (by train, which is by far the most knitting friendly mode of transport) I designed and made these:

Stitchville Baby Booties

These booties are seamless and the pattern for them has been published yesterday! They are part of Stitchville’s new collection called “Fairer World”, which is a fundraising collection. But it’s a subject for another post.

Lost & found

I have been consistently and steadily unearthing my carefully stored knitting notes and editing them into neat parcels of knitterly receipes.

It’s tedious, satisfying and liberating.

Today I finished editing pattern for alpaca top I have made in 2008. I had amazing notes I have taken in the process of making the garment, which I thought were lost when my laptop was stolen a couple of years ago. Alas, I have found them whilst ploughing through one of my massive back-ups the other day. And thank God for that – otherwise it would have been an altogether different experience! Given the circumstances, it was relatively easy to produce straight forward instructions. As most of my patterns, it comes with a key to help knitters create a bespoke size. This pattern also has a couple of charts to help people understand the inner workings of the construction, which of course is seamless!

The interesting thing to note is this – the working notes written up three years ago are stylistically quite different than my current way of writing knitting patterns. It was great to see that I have honed and improved my style. I don’t think about such things without such an obvious prompt as this!

Bell-sleeved Alpaca Top

Wonderful crochet

A friend sent me this link:

http://www.ted.com/talks/margaret_wertheim_crochets_the_coral_reef.html

A very engaging and clever story.

On knitterly re-incarnation and bags

I have been re-visiting some projects I have made last year – purely for my own pleasure. You know, the kind that just fly off your needles, or crochet hook – as was the case here.

I had some chunky yarn around that was begging to be used and I took putting it out of its misery rather seriously.

I love bags. I don’t think one can have enough of them. Well, at least not in my household where there seems to be plenty of items that need their little neat homes and organising is high on the agenda (a very successful survival strategy for a mother of three, I can tell you that). Hence this green bag is now a rather glorified container for all manner of plastic bags and it occupies a prominent place in our kitchen. People laugh at a thought of a family of humble plastic bags “living” in such a fancy “home” (excuse my kiddie language here – one hangs out around them for long enough and the next thing one knows is that one actually sounds like them!).

I made this green bag out of some chunky hand-dyed wool. It needed 1 kg of yarn! It was huge before felting. The fancy art yarn is by Pluckyfluff.

The other felted crochet bag is this one here:

This used to be my daughter’s sweater. Very much loved and well used (this included a few munches left by the nasty moths here and there). When it got to the point when it was both too small and looking rather tired, I simply frogged it and turned it into a bag for her. You should have seen my face when I pulled it out of the washing machine! I was astonished by how vibrant and fresh the colour was and how soft the fabric has turned out. It’s a fabulous way to give a tired knit a brand new glamorous life.

I have now finished writing up both patterns and they will be available at the Stitchville Yarn Boutique very soon… Look for them in the Stitchville Gallery.

Only five years late!

Better late than never, as they say.

5 years ago, when I first established myself as a freelance knitwear designer, I designed a pair of fine cashmere gloves. I exhibited them at the ELDS in 2006. I have been meaning to publish the pattern ever since. Alas, my laptop on which the un-backed-up notes were stored got stolen at some point along the way, which has really put me off. I’d have to re-construct the whole thing from memory and careful examination. I even re-invented the gloves a year later for a publisher, and the pattern was/is a great hit, but it never quite did it for me. I always thought of the other pair as vastly superior. And now…

Low and behold, I have actually released the pattern today!

I cannot tell you how good it feels. It is immensely gratifying…

I may be slow, but I do get things done… Eventually.

PS: It only took 12 hours.

Sock obsession

It is a miracle that I did not (at least to my knowledge) dream of socks this week just gone.

I have truly led a sock-obsessed life for a few days. The reason for that was the impending publishing deadline for The Joy Of Socks patterns. I have underestimated the complexity of the pattern writing to such a degree that, to protect my own sanity, I had to postpone the release date by a few days.

The patterns are so long that I actually had to paginate them! But, do not be intimidated. It’s not just writing – there are masses of pictures and charts as well.

I have been telling the truth when I said in my description of the City Sock that, indeed, it only looks innocent.

The great news is that both patterns are now out. A 100 copies each that is, as it is a limited edition.

What a lovely feeling. This will be a sock-free weekend, I assure you.

Mouse abuse

I have been working like a woman possessed these last few days. I have actually inflicted a somewhat unpleasant, albeit of mild nature, injury to my right wrist as a result. Maybe that is why I tend to avoid at all cost the part of my job that has had me treat my faithful mouse with such intensity. I refer to editing, of course.

Well, I do have quite an impressing pile of work all ticked off and finished to show for it, even though some of it is not quite yet ready to be premiered, so to speak. Soon…

What I have so far is this:

The patterns for the above garments will be published in a limited edition of 100 copies per pattern on the 1st of October 2011. They can be pre-ordered at the Stitchville boutique.

Phew. Off I go! My to do list is waiting!

More to follow. Much, much more.

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